user/wine: bump to 4.0.1, add mpg123 support

I can backport the mpg123 support if you'd like. I think I need to investigate Wine 3 a little more since there appears to be serious problems with it - like not even being able to move Notepad windows around without freezing. This problem is not present in Wine 4, so either something changed upstream or our package is corrupted. I will try a rebuild and see what happens.