use md_account_bio() to enable io accounting, also make sure
mddev_suspend() will wait for all io to be done.

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Xiao Ni <xni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230621165110.1498313-7-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com