Bluetooth: Move identity address update behind a workqueue

The identity address update of all channels for an l2cap_conn needs to
take the lock for each channel, i.e. it's safest to do this by a
separate workqueue callback.

Previously this was partially solved by moving the entire SMP key
distribution behind a workqueue. However, if we want SMP context locking
to be correct and safe we should always use the l2cap_chan lock when
accessing it, meaning even smp_distribute_keys needs to take that lock
which would once again create a dead lock when updating the identity
address.

The simplest way to solve this is to have l2cap_conn manage the deferred
work which is what this patch does. A subsequent patch will remove the
now unnecessary SMP key distribution work struct.

Signed-off-by: Johan Hedberg <johan.hedberg@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Marcel Holtmann <marcel@holtmann.org>