net: ethernet: mtk_eth_soc: avoid creating duplicate offload entries

Sometimes multiple CLS_REPLACE calls are issued for the same connection.
rhashtable_insert_fast does not check for these duplicates, so multiple
hardware flow entries can be created.
Fix this by checking for an existing entry early

Fixes: 502e84e2 ("net: ethernet: mtk_eth_soc: add flow offloading support")
Signed-off-by: Felix Fietkau <nbd@nbd.name>
Signed-off-by: Ilya Lipnitskiy <ilya.lipnitskiy@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>