scsi: iscsi: Add support for asynchronous iSCSI session destruction

iSCSI session destruction can be arbitrarily slow, since it might require
network operations and serialization inside the SCSI layer.  This patch
adds a new user event to trigger the destruction work asynchronously,
releasing the rx_queue_mutex as soon as the operation is queued and before
it is performed.  This change allows other operations to run in other
sessions in the meantime, removing one of the major iSCSI bottlenecks for
us.

To prevent the session from being used after the destruction request, we
remove it immediately from the sesslist. This simplifies the locking
required during the asynchronous removal.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200227195945.761719-1-krisman@collabora.com


Co-developed-by: Gabriel Krisman Bertazi <krisman@collabora.com>
Co-developed-by: Khazhismel Kumykov <khazhy@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Lee Duncan <lduncan@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Gabriel Krisman Bertazi <krisman@collabora.com>
Signed-off-by: Frank Mayhar <fmayhar@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Khazhismel Kumykov <khazhy@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>