md/raid1: switch to use md_account_bio() for io accounting

Two problems can be fixed this way:

1) 'active_io' will represent inflight io instead of io that is
dispatching.

2) If io accounting is enabled or disabled while io is still inflight,
bio_start_io_acct() and bio_end_io_acct() is not balanced and io
inflight counter will be leaked.

Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Xiao Ni <xni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230621165110.1498313-5-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com