drm/nouveau: use shared fences for readable objects

nouveau keeps track in userspace whether a buffer is being
written to or being read, but it doesn't use that information.

Change this to allow multiple readers on the same bo.

Signed-off-by: Maarten Lankhorst <maarten.lankhorst@canonical.com>
Acked-by: Ben Skeggs <bskeggs@redhat.com>