drm/virtio: notify virtqueues without holding spinlock

Split virtqueue_kick() call into virtqueue_kick_prepare(), which
requires serialization, and virtqueue_notify(), which does not.  Move
the virtqueue_notify() call out of the critical section protected by the
queue lock.  This avoids triggering a vmexit while holding the lock and
thereby fixes a rather bad spinlock contention.

Suggested-by: Chia-I Wu <olvaffe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Gerd Hoffmann <kraxel@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Chia-I Wu <olvaffe@gmail.com>
Link: http://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20190813082509.29324-3-kraxel@redhat.com