block: move bdev_mark_dead out of disk_check_media_change

disk_check_media_change is mostly called from ->open where it makes
little sense to mark the file system on the device as dead, as we
are just opening it.  So instead of calling bdev_mark_dead from
disk_check_media_change move it into the few callers that are not
in an open instance.  This avoid calling into bdev_mark_dead and
thus taking s_umount with open_mutex held.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231017184823.1383356-4-hch@lst.de


Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Signed-off-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>