xfs: don't block the log commit handler for discards

Instead we submit the discard requests and use another workqueue to
release the extents from the extent busy list.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>