drm/display/dp_mst: Add helper for finding payloads in atomic MST state

We already open-code this quite often, and will be iterating through
payloads even more once we've moved all of the payload tracking into the
atomic state. So, let's add a helper for doing this.

Signed-off-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Cc: Wayne Lin <Wayne.Lin@amd.com>
Cc: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Fangzhi Zuo <Jerry.Zuo@amd.com>
Cc: Jani Nikula <jani.nikula@intel.com>
Cc: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Cc: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Cc: Sean Paul <sean@poorly.run>
Acked-by: Jani Nikula <jani.nikula@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20220817193847.557945-8-lyude@redhat.com